Ash Wednesday can be tricky with children. If you are a church that uses liturgy, the liturgy can be long and full of words that children would not necessarily use! It's important, though, that as part of the body of Christ, children are included in key events in the church calendar. Here is my attempt to open up some of the symbolism and meaning of Ash Wednesday in a way that (hopefully) might be useful to some of you!
I have based some of this on the Church of England's Liturgy for Ash Wednesday in Common Worship: Times and Seasons (Click here to go to an online version of the full liturgy on the Church of England Website- Ash Wednesday is on pages 15-26) and have focussed on key themes of being 'sorry', being cleansed and having hope in Jesus.
Make your ashes in advance! I made mine by burning strips of paper in a metal tin. Be careful!!
Talk to the children about Ash Wednesday as the first day of Lent which is a time of thinking about God and focussing more on Him instead of the 'stuff' around us. Ash Wednsday is a day when we say sorry to God and think about our lives.
Talk about what it means to say sorry and why we might want to do that, especially to people we love. How does saying sorry help?
Next encourage the children to think of things they might want to say sorry to God for and give them time to do this privately.
Introduce the liturgy to the children so that they know what they will be doing. Some of them might want to add to the list of things we could say sorry for, so don't be afraid to add lines!
Liturgy
You will need: Ashes mixed with oil, a large cross shape made of card or paper, a bowl of water, a candle, paper hearts, scratch art cards and cocktail sticks
Say the words in italics and ask the children to join in the bold type words. As they say their line, encourage them to dip their finger in the ash mixture and make the sign of the cross or a finger print on the large cross shape.
Thank you Lord that you love us and hear us when we pray
We are sorry for things we have done that have hurt you and others.
We have not loved you
or others as much as we could
Lord, we are sorry
We have not helped
others as Jesus helped us
Lord, we are sorry
We have been impatient
Lord, we are sorry
We have been angry
Lord, we are sorry
We have been jealous
of others
Lord, we are sorry
We have told lies
Lord, we are sorry
We have forgotten to
pray
Lord, we are sorry
Imposition of ashes on forehead (if this is something you and the children would like to do)
(Light a candle)
Hear us and help
us,Lord
Work through us so
that we can share your goodness and love in the world
Show us the joy and
new life that Jesus brings.
(Children wash fingers in the water and draw a cross on the scratch art card as a sign of the hope and light of Jesus in the world)
(Take a heart and exchange it with someone else)
Thank you Lord for loving us
Help us to love one another.
Let me know how this works if you get the chance to try it out!